Meet Grizzy today for a reading at the Imperial Castle in Pawling NY at 12:30 p.m.

We will be doing a reading at this awesome toy store.  If you are local you should really pay the store a visit as it is an old fashion toy store.  They even have colorforms and my barbies of the past.  I get more excited than my son.  Grizzy, Luke, Anthony and I will be there to share Grizzy’s story and sign any books that you have bought, they will be books to purchase and a little secret give away.  We hope to see you there.  

Fondly,  Melissa

“We rise by lifting others.” Robert Ingersoll.  

30 Days of Grizzy’s Post-Operative and our Lessons Learned about Home care – The need to have therapy

As discussed in earlier posts, the need to have rehabilitation available post-op is huge.  If you don’t have that resource coupled with a large breed, you will learn very quickly that you don’t have the tools, skill, and resources to help your furry friend.  This was very frustrating to us and looking hindsight knowing what I know now, our Griz would have never come home post-op in the condition he was in to suffer 4 months of immobility and gone straight to an inpatient rehab facility.  There are few facilities able to take a large breed but thank God I found one in Lathem, NY.  We took Griz to 2 other “rehabilitation” vets and they said they could “treat” a mastiff and they could not.  We went to one in Connecticut that took our intake over the phone, said they could treat and when we got there after renting a van, they said they could not.  Keep in mind with all of these false starts, we had to rent a van, use a human hoist to get Grizzy into the van and moving an already injured dog was very difficult on all of us, particularly Grizzy.  I looked all over the tri state area.  This is a skill and specialty that is not easy to find so you really have to do your homework on the facility that is going to do surgery on your animal and ensure they have post operative treatment and a good reputation.  Our surgical center was a huge very reputable place but they lacked in rehab resource even though they pushed it pre-op we found out the hard way.

I can’t tell you the amount of hoists, harnesses, supplies, and handmade moving gurnies that we used.  Again, I would do it all over again, we certainly have no regrets but I would ensure this important resource was available.  Grizzy is not the only dog that I know now that has come out of this facility and is now getting rehab outside.  Unfortunately I can bet some dogs have been euthanized because of the lack of this resource and the difficulty with home-care.  If I help any family get there animal the correct care through this blog or learn/understand the complexity I will be happy.  That is the reason why I’m doing 30 days of post-op posts.  Attached is a video of a hoist that we purchased by referral from the surgical hospital.  It was roughly $300.00.  You can see it did not work whatsoever and my husband tried to compensate by putting a life jacket on Grizzy to protect his skin, muscles from pulling up dead weight using a hoist, etc.  We were told “get him up,” “touch his feet to the floor so he feels his feet” “do it every day, etc.  I get a headache thinking about it. He was in no condition to attempt to feel his feet and we were trying everything.

Days of Grizzy Post-Operative and our Lessons Learned about Home care – Camping out

Best Brothers
Hanging out watching TV







The main purpose of this blog on homecare is to assist anyone who may be in the same situation.   As I said yesterday, the key is to ask questions of post-op outcomes, check references and ensure there is a rehabilitation program in place.  This was our attempt at home, and we did make some strides, but Grizzy never got up until he met my friends at Shaker Vet. They are now like family to Grizzy and us.  I can never thank them enough.  They saved his life as the suggestion of the surgeon was if he didn’t walk at four months he would not.  Jenn, Kellie and Ken and the other members of the Shaker family proved him wrong.  I continue to hear stories through channels of animals needing rehab and not being pointed in the right direction or understand the needs.  I can be reached at if you ever have questions.  We have to share our experiences to help our furry friends as they can’t talk for themselves.


As I look through pictures, I recall many nights of sleeping on the living room floor with Grizzy.  He cried with anxiety, and almost every night like clockwork he used his bowels at 2 am.  Grizzy is such a good boy; if he had a bowel movement, he felt bad.  You could see it in his eyes.  We probably went through 20 beds and comforters in 4 months.  Taking care of him was very similar to a human quadriplegic.  Toileting was constant, and you could not let him lie in it.  There were some occurrences of urine “burn,” and it was painful to him.  I  found an excellent aloe spray wash shared below that is used for humans palliative care.  Once I figured it out, I could manage it pretty well with quickness in clean up and use these products that were very reasonable in the purchase price.  We also used the disposable pads/mats that you get in the hospital.  It protected the beds somewhat, and it saved you on washing sheets and dog bed “life.”  Each night or if I had to leave for a bit I lined his bed with at least 3 of them.  Even if they claim a mattress is water resistant it is not.  We bought $200  beds due to his size and comfort needs, and once they soiled long term, we had to throw them out due to the smell, or we donated them to the local shelter as the cages are outside and some of the dogs do not have beds at all.  One thing I remember well is we could not go out for long periods of time.  It might not be for everyone, but we were and are “Team Grizzy” so we adapted as needed.  Because he could not move I had to roll him on his side, pull out the disposable mat(s), clean him and then flip him on his other side, clean and then re-line his bed with new disposable mat(s) and sometimes a new bed or comforter if it escaped the disposable pads.  We developed quite a trust as you would a person that you care for in this capacity.  He did not fight me, in fact the moment he went, he cried.

The cleaner line is great.  The links are below as well as the disposable pads.  I had a little trial and error, so I’d like to share it because it works great and works for people as well.  🙂 Aloe Vesta Perineal Cleanser.  They also have skin protector cream and foam cleanser.  The cream worked great to sooth any urine burns and prevented the skin from breaking down.

Grizzy cannot move


A boy and his dog


As you can see his canine family was very supportive too. His brother Sozzi (mastiff) and sister Maggie McPuppy (Bernice)

30 Days of Grizzy Post-Operative and our Lessons Learned about Homecare

In looking at some older pictures last night, I came across many of Grizzy’s post-op pictures.  Emotion crashed down on me, both good and bad.  By bad, I guess I mean “hard.” As I have said, when we had Grizzy have surgery to correct Wobblers, we never had a clue how home care would work.  We were told our dog would walk out of the hospital, but instead, we picked up a total quad.  He walked in, with difficulty and came out on a gurney, all 160 pounds of him completely limp 🙁  The first I will share today is my husband Anthony’s attempt at making a winch system to help us get Grizzy up.  It didn’t work because Grizzy was so uncomfortable.  We also put him in our bedroom, thinking to keep him away from our other dogs but he was too lonely and cried, both in pain and because he was alone.  You can see in his face how much pain he was in.  This was day one of a very long journey.  While I am so grateful we made it through; I would urge anyone that has a large breed that has any spinal surgery to ensure they get the facts or experience on surgical outcome realities.  We would not have changed our decision to get Grizzy fixed, but we would have been better prepared for post-op needs.  Also, you need to ensure the surgical center has the rehabilitation resources.  Ours did not.  We found out the hard way that the staff only worked two days per week and you were lucky to get on her calendar.  If I knew what I know today, Grizzy would have gone directly to Shaker Vet in Latham, NY for inpatient rehabilitation.  But you live and learn, and I only want to share these insights for those who may be in the position one day.

Our poor boy was paralyzed, very little muscle activity, including the ability to eat
We tried…the idea was good, just not functional for our needs and Grizzy’s comfort.


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Luke signing the copies

[Following is an official review of “Me, My Dog and a Sheep” by Melissa Mullamphy.]

Book Cover

4 out of 4 stars

Me, My Dog and a Sheep by Melissa Mullamphy is a story of hope, faith, and perseverance. In this book, the author shares her family’s real-life experiences with their dog, Grizzy. It is 52 pages long and belongs to the Children’s book genre.

The book begins with a four-month-old dog, Grizzy, being ignored by all customers at a pet store due to his age. One day, Luke’s father selected Grizzy and gave a two-year-old Luke his new best friend. A few years later, one day, when Grizzy could not stand, the family took him to a doctor and discovered that Grizzy needed surgery, after which, Grizzy was left paralyzed. The rest of the book describes the struggles of both Grizzy and the family, as they cope with the situation and do everything that they possibly can for Grizzy’s recovery, despite knowing that there are bleak chances of success. Will Grizzy be able to walk again? Will Grizzy and the Family’s tireless attempts prove to be successful? Will Luke be able to play with his best friend again? More importantly, how is a sheep relevant to the story? Read the book to find out!

The story is told from Luke’s perspective. Luke’s thoughts and feelings are expressed in a manner that would enable anyone, but specifically, children, to connect with him and hope for the best for him. Further, the author has included numerous pictures of the real dog and family (who the plot is based on) which made me extremely involved in their story. As a result, to be honest, I doubt any reader would be able to read through the book without hoping and praying for the best.

As I read through the book, I found it to be an emotional roller coaster. The first page included a real image of the dog, and I felt like I could see pain in his eyes. As an animal lover, that picture had a large impact on me. Towards the beginning of the book, the author described how “sad and abandoned” the dog felt when every customer walked by him and did not select him. At that point, I could almost feel the dog’s pain. As the plot moved ahead, it was inspiring to read how, despite every failed attempt, Grizzy and the family never gave up. They did everything they could, at every step. Without giving away any spoilers, I can mention that the end was also emotional.

In terms of language, I thought that the book was well written. The vocabulary and sentence structures were simple, and I found no word that, in my belief, a child would not understand. The book seems professionally edited and has been formatted well. There were large, full-page illustrations on every alternate page. The illustrations were simple but appropriate with regard to the text they represented. Overall, I thought that the book was very easy to understand and follow.

I have no major issues with the book. One thing that I did not expect was that all the pages had a blue background. It took me a little time to adjust to the background and its contrast with the black text. However, eventually, I got used to it and it did not bother me much. However, this is not a major issue, and many readers might like the blue background.

I rate the book 4 out of 4 stars. I thought that it was well written and had an important message for children – not to give up. After finishing the book, I felt good about having read it. To me, that is a definite sign of a great book. While I would definitely recommend the book for children, I would also recommend it for animal lovers of any age group. If you love animals, this is a book that you will not regret picking up!

Me, My Dog and a Sheep 

Upcoming Local Event

Come out and support the Buchanan Beautification Non-Profit and attend the 2nd Annual Spring Fair.  The details are attached, and we will be there selling your own personal signed copy of “Me, My Dog and a Sheep.” This is our first stop for many of #Grizzytour2018.  Enjoy some good food, shop many local vendors, and even take a chance at a 50/50.   It is a child-friendly event.  Luke will be there as well to share his “Hollywood” signature.

We hope to see you there!!! Hopefully, by then we may even look at some flowers.  If you have any questions, please contact me at

One year after his remarkable recovery from Wobblers Disease, Grizz and his family sit down with Kate Corey for a follow-up interview.

We have been busy on the Grizzy “Tour.” We had the privilege of doing a Year in Review with Kate Corey on Channel 13, Albany.  What a wonderful show and outstanding host.  You will see during the interview, Mr. Grizz wanted to get up.  Grizzy has to get the TV thing down better.  🙂

Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.

Mother Teresa

A Year in Review

Contest Entries — Please Read Very Very Cool!!

Yesterday marked two years post op for Grizzy.  It is an amazing path this journey has taken us.  Mr. Grizzy is now sleeping on the couch and very active as he was before his surgery and his fight to learn to walk again for almost a year of work and hard rehabilitation.  In February, we introduced a contest in the last blog and have not had any entries.  It is a cool one, so I’m going to extend the deadline to June 1st.  Here are the details:

There are 2 age groups:  kids ages 7 and under and 8-14.

The requirements are, purchase a copy of “Me, My Dog and a Sheep,” (in any format) write a review on Amazon (if you need to get your parents help) and send us a picture of your favorite fuzzy friend that you have either drawn, or the actual photo and a brief note of why you love your buddy so much  to  Here is the link to Amazon:

So far we are blessed and the book reviews are great.  We really think you will enjoy, and who knows, perhaps Grizzy is going to come out with another book.  “Where is Sheepie?” Stay tuned.

We will pick 1 in each age category, and the winners will receive a 16″ plush stuffed animal to match your picture or drawing.

Submissions are due by June 1st.  We will keep running it if successful as these plush animals are forever gifts for your children or a tribute to your favorite fuzzy friend.

We also have, of course, ordered our furry grizzy.


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“If you believe in yourself and have dedication and pride – and never quit, you’ll be a winner. The price of victory is high but so are the rewards.”

Paul Bryant